When dating, most guys decide to "play the field." At a young age it is ok to date different people to learn what you are looking for in a potential girlfriend but there is a thin line between dating and being a player. The official definition of a player is "a person who pursues a number of different social partners simultaneously." For girls the definition of a player is a jerk that messes with their emotions. A Player attempts to play the field but goes about it the wrong way. Instead of being honest with the girls he dates about his plans for no commitment, he lies and doesn't mention the other girls he is interested in. This situation proves problematic for both the player and girls involved. The girls think that the boy is interested in them alone and are unaware of the others. The guy has to keep up with multiple relationships in hopes that none of the girls find out about the others. Unfortunately, many guys don't think this complicated situation through. Often times the guy will say the same thing and send the same texts to each girl. If the girls the guy is interested in are friends, then they will most likely discuss the guy and realize that they are being played. Not only will they be hurt, they will be furious. Guys should either be honest or stick to one girl. There is nothing worse than having multiple females mad at you...
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